This so called “war on women” is not just a war on cis women. It’s a war on anyone who needs access to safe, affordable, and accessible healthcare. If we want to make any real progress, we need to stop ignoring and erasing the experiences of trans*, genderqueer, intersex, and other nonbinary people.
29 May 2012 / Reblogged from ladyatheist with 139 notes / something to keep in mind / Source: ladyatheist
I wrote a post about shipping, and it blew up in a way I never anticipated. Apparently my anger resonated with a lot of people, which is simultaneously amazing and sad. People who are completely outside the Avengers fandom have told me how closely my experience matches their own in fandoms ranging from Sherlock to the Legend of Zelda to Star Trek.
It’s funny. If I had known this would turn as big as it has, I might have written something a little more eloquent and with fewer pictures of Iron Man and Captain America being
gaywhoopssorry folksheterosexual life partners.I don’t have time to respond to everyone, but a few people made great points about that post that I want to address.
1. Fans that don’t fit into a gender/sexual orientation binary
The post contained very, very simplified definitions of “fanboy” and “fangirl,” and people from innumerable backgrounds felt left out. “What about fanboys who ship?” “What about fangirls who don’t ship anything?” Those are important questions and they deserve an answer.
I didn’t expand on this before, so I will now: Everyone has a place in fandom. Everyone. For the sake of that piece I targeted a very specific subset of fans and in no way want to generalize about the others. I could never even claim to speak for all heterosexual women who ship; that would be arrogance. Each person defines their own fanhood. The important thing is that fans respect each other and accept that different people find different ways of enjoying their fandoms.
2. Why this actually is a women’s rights/LGBT issue
Some people took offense.
I understand the frustration that comes from fetishizing homosexuality. I do. But I want to be clear: I never once considered myself some sort of GLBT rights crusader. I ship because I see interesting relationships to be explored, and because it’s fun. That being said, the angry tone of my post didn’t originate with me. It came as a response to very real anger from certain fanboys directed at people like me. And a lot of that anger comes from places that are, most certainly, a rights issue (“You can’t make [X character] gay because being gay is wrong!”)
I also take offense to the notion that “some of these characters are important to people” is a valid excuse for their anger. It implies that these characters aren’t important to people like me. You have no idea how important they are to me and how often a Captain America comic has gotten me through a rough day.
And it’s not just me:
(gweena)
Honestly, I can’t articulate any better than this why women’s rights do come into play here. Shipping is a great outlet for women:
(carororo)
It’s also a great outlet for anyone who enjoys exploring sexualities:
I’m honestly thrilled to have provoked so much discussion. People are saying important things, and I’m sorry I can’t quote all of them. So I’ll quote Captain America quoting Mark Twain:
Fangirls, fanboys, shippers, nonshippers: keep speaking. Let your voice be heard.
29 May 2012 / Reblogged from theumbrellaseller with 311 notes / woo fandom fanfiction shipping / Source: patheticfangirl
29 May 2012 / Reblogged from oh-you-better-run with 6,149 notes / image this is how you fashion / Source: yahuula
So, in the wake of reading this terrifying shit, Postcard and I started chatting, as you do, about the zombie apocalypse. Here are some things Postcard and I enjoy: zombie media, common sense, and YELLING ABOUT STUFF. Thus, for your reading pleasure, please enjoy our simple twenty-step guide to NOT DYING in the unlikely event that a zombie apocalypse ravages humanity:
- IN THE EVENT OF AN ACTUAL APOCALYPTIC SITUATION, ASSUME THAT THE FOLLOWING THINGS ARE GOING TO STOP WORKING: running water (this includes toilets); anything that relies on electricity (this includes gas pumps); anything that relies on natural gas lines (this includes gas stoves/central heat); basically, anything that relies on there being a factory of some variety at the other end of thing you want to make do stuff. THAT’S ALL GONNA BREAK. THIS INCLUDES THE INTERNET. Thus, the most important thing to do in the event of a zombie apocalypse is:
- RESEARCH. For as long as you possess the internet, do everything you can to learn as much as possible. Research edible/medicinal plants (or seriously, go into a bookstore and loot your shit a guidebook, they’re not large, they sell little tiny ones, you can put it in your pocket, WHY DOES EVERYONE IN EVERY ZOMBIE MOVIE NOT DO THIS). Research, from available information, how the zombies work/which of their senses are functional—for example, if they operate largely by smell, you want to work on smelling not alive. If they operate largely by sight, DON’T LIGHT FIRES AT NIGHT. And speaking of fires…
29 May 2012 / Reblogged from gyzym with 13,152 notes / haha thank you gyzym zombie apocalypse / Source: gyzym
The Rudest Casts
The Avengers (2012)OH MY GOD JUST LOOK AT THEM. JUST. LOOK AT THEM. *__________*
29 May 2012 / Reblogged from tokidokifish with 5,790 notes / image wow this is an attractive photoset congratulations avengers / Source: whenigrowupiwannabeadonut
i visited the friend zone to see if i could make some friends but it was just a bunch of angry men’s rights activists in fedoras???
29 May 2012 / Reblogged from stfuconservatives with 10,309 notes / ah i saw this again and had to reblog it good / Source: misanderysoncooper
A woman in America runs a greater risk of being killed by her husband or boyfriend than a woman in Pakistan.
How I Learned To Stop Worrying And Love Feminists. (via popmuslim)
A woman in America runs a greater risk of being killed by her husband or boyfriend than a woman in Pakistan.
A woman in America runs a greater risk of being killed by her husband or boyfriend than a woman in Pakistan.
A woman in America runs a greater risk of being killed by her husband or boyfriend than a woman in Pakistan.
(via silverqueen)
Let me reiterate that for you all …
A woman in America runs a greater risk of being killed by her husband or boyfriend than a woman in Pakistan.
A woman in America runs a greater risk of being killed by her husband or boyfriend than a woman in Pakistan.
A woman in America runs a greater risk of being killed by her husband or boyfriend than a woman in Pakistan.
(via dank-potion)
I think you’ve missed a crutial point though, let me point it out:
A woman in America runs a greater risk of being killed by her husband or boyfriend than a woman in Pakistan.
A woman in America runs a greater risk of being killed by her husband or boyfriend than a woman in Pakistan.
A woman in America runs a greater risk of being killed by her husband or boyfriend than a woman in Pakistan.
(via themindislimitless)
29 May 2012 / Reblogged from hypnicjerkoff with 4,960 notes / wow wtf / Source: popmuslim
The “Cathedral Dress” from Micro S/S 2012
© Iris van Herpen
29 May 2012 / Reblogged from hypnicjerkoff with 409 notes / image this is how you fashion / Source: mediumaevum
29 May 2012 / Reblogged from bookspaperscissors with 2,395 notes / image pictures that need a story / Source: antonvanhertbruggen.blogspot.se
Nintendo Samurais
Created by Jed Henry
29 May 2012 / Reblogged from koldunkisloty with 197 notes / image mario kart legend of zelda metroid / Source: koldunkisloty
I’m really hoping to make it down to LA to see this show I helped kickstart.Guess what!
June 23-24 | Monk Space gallery4414 West 2nd Street Los Angeles, CA 90004Find out a little bit more.
This is why living in LA is THE BEST
29 May 2012 / Reblogged from leupagus with 1,354 notes / uuuaaaaugh cute why can't i go to this art show omg la always has these cool things community image / Source: nondesignated
never-ending list of hair pornBatwoman
29 May 2012 / Reblogged from pikagalmish with 557 notes / image batwoman a good character / Source: missmarvels
Triya ss13 - Rio
28 May 2012 / Reblogged from modelsofcolor with 2,764 notes / image ladies this is how you fashion / Source: coco-vaughn
The best way to describe Japanese artist Mika Aoki’s physical body and shapes of her sculptures are like bacterial specimens going through an epidemic outbreak. At the same time, evolving and incorporating itself on cars, mutated bottles, syringes, and laboratory test tubes. In the end, her sculptures are beautiful, unusually universally perceived, and executed in abstract forms. (by okmarzo)
28 May 2012 / Reblogged from bookspaperscissors with 1,233 notes / image / Source: darksilenceinsuburbia